You must stand by your spouse, not your family or their family. Are you constantly dealing with rude or difficult in-laws? Both of his parents talk to their son, if sometimes they find something wrong my behavior toward them. (Diane Sollee, Smartmarriages.com, Subject: Gramma week/marriage skits/finances/The Best Gift Ever), I think the one thing Ill never forget about my mother-in-law, Sheila, is the night I came to her with a struggle in my marriage. He keeps telling me to go with him all the time when he visits them which is about 2 to 3 times a month. (UNITED STATES) Why is it that mother-in-laws feel the need to impose their control over their sons family? Keep a sense of humour. You don't want to make your children dislike their grandparents or deprive them of a relationship. (USA) Jennifer, Its going to be difficult not to step on someones feelings on this if theyre throwing around oughts and shoulds. But none-the-less, the best way to handle this is to approach this as soft, loving, yet as respectfully firm as possible, explaining that youre at a time of your married life where you need to care for your young daughter in different ways than you might, if she was older. (From the book, The Masters Degree by Frank and Bunny Wilson). Institutionalized discrimination is bad for people and for societies. If you don't talk things through right away, eventually, things will explode when the timing is much worse, and small disagreements can turn into big, ugly ones. (SOUTH AFRICA) I have been married for exactly 3 months. They interacted with you during the most important developmental stages of your life. This just puts you and your spouse in a worse spot. (SINGAPORE) Hey, blessed greetings to all. My marriage is suffering. My husband is very attached to his family We have our own house but why does he want always go to the house of her parents? I saw that he was trying to provoke my eldest son, who was only trying to control him while he kept on pulling and strangling my daughter. Imagine a rope, the kind used in tug-of-war. (Ingrid Lawrenz, from the Marriage Partnership Magazine article, In-Law Tug-of-War), Over the years, weve blended our two styles, thanks to our gradual understanding that those styles had an origin outside our marriage.
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